Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend Before You Get Married
Are You Ready for Marriage?
Is He the One?

How well do you know your boyfriend? Some evening after dinner, take time to ask each other a few questions about your relationship, and get to know yourselves better as a couple. Do the two of you have what it takes for marriage together? These are the questions to ask your boyfriend before you get married. Talk openly and answer the questions as honestly as you can. The questions reveal your relationship in the light of candor and communication. The questions will help you be honest with each other. There are no right or wrong answers to these questions. And, no matter how you feel now, remember that you both will grow and change as time goes on. With these questions to ask your boyfriend before you get married, you can plan your life together. Are you ready for marriage?

For each question you ask your boyfriend, the right answer could be yes, no, often, sometimes, or never. Sometimes a topic is so important to you that the wrong answer could be a deal-breaker. Sometimes you may have to adjust, compromise or reconsider your needs. Sharing and communicating your feelings is important. Are you ready to get married? Is your boyfriend ready to get married? And is your boyfriend the right one for you?

• Question 1. What do you love about me?
  
  
• Question 2. Why do we want to get married?
  
  
• Question 3. How much time will we spend together? What activities do we enjoy together? Will we have a date night? Will we go shopping for food together?
  
  
• Question 4. Where will we go on vacation? Will we take separate vacations? How often will we vacation with family or friends?
  
  
• Question 5. Does your family like me? Do your friends like me?
  
  
• Question 6. Where are we financially? How much money will we have to live on? How will we manage our money. Who will pay for what, and who will decide what we buy? Will we have separate checking accounts? Who will pay the bills?
  
  
• Question 7. How much money will we spend and how much will we save? Do you think I spend too much? Do you think I am tight with money?
  
  
• Question 8. Will we have a budget? Will I have an allowance? How much will we be able to spend on rent, clothes, food and travel?
  
  
• Question 9. Do you want to have children? How many children do you want? How long should we wait to start a family? Who will take care of the children, change diapers, get up for nightly feedings? What will we do if we can't have children together?
  
  
• Question 10. What was your childhood like?
  
  
• Question 11. In what city will we live? Do you want to live in a house or an apartment. What housing can we afford?
  
  
• Question 12. Will both of us continue to work? If one of us is asked to relocate out of town, how will we handle the change? What are your career goals? Is it likely that one of us will have a larger salary? How do you feel about that?
  
  
• Question 13. How will we share the household chores and yard work? And which ones tasks will you do? Who will cook and who will clean up? How important is a clean and tidy home?
  
  
• Question 14. Do we share the same religion? Is religion important to you? Will we go to the same services? What religious training will the children get?
  
  
• Question 15. What is a good sexual relationship for you? How important is sex to you? If our needs differ, how can we deal with that?
  
  
• Question 16. What do you like to do with your friends? How often will you go out with your friends alone? Will we entertain friends together?
  
  
• Question 17. How much do you drink? Do you use non-prescription drugs? Have you ever had a car accident? Have you ever gotten into a fight and hurt someone? What makes you angry? Have you ever been in jail?
  
  
• Question 18. How much time will we spend with our families? Will our family relationships change?
  
  
• Question 19. Do you have children already? Will they be part of our household? What care and support will they need from us? How do you feel about me adopting them?
  
  
• Question 20. What were your past relationships like? How long did they last and why did they break up? Have you been married before? Will these past relationships cause problems in our marriage?
  
  
• Question 21. Do you think fidelity is important in marriage? Do you think infidelity is a reason for divorce?
  
  
• Question 22. Where do you see the two of us in ten years, twenty years and fifty years? What will our life be like?
  
  
• Question 23. If we disagree or argue, what do you think is the reason behind it? Can we talk out our disagreements? If we have problems later on, how would we solve them? Would you consider marriage counseling?
  
  
• Question 24. Do you have any health problems, physical or mental?
  
  
• Question 25. What do you dislike about me? Do I sometimes annoy you or bore? Will it be a point of conflict for us if I don't change?
  
  

These are all important questions to ask your boyfriend before you get married. The experience of sharing your feelings will make your marriage stronger and happier.

I wish you a life full of romance and memories with the boyfriend of your dreams.
- Heather, Questions to Ask Your boyfriend Before You Get Married

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